I have seen all the works that are done under the sun; and, behold, all is vanity and vexation of spirit. (Ecclesiastes 1:14)
This is the last part of the topic of observation, and I hope you take this last thing very seriously
8. What you say and what other people say.
Death and life are in the power of the tongue:and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.(Proverbs 18:21) In this day and age many people do not think before they talk, many people think that freedom of speech means that you can get away with what you say.
The mouth of the just bringeth forth wisdom:
but the froward tongue shall be cut out(Proverbs 10:31). Even to be born again you must first say with your mouth,That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.(Romans 10:9). Be careful and mind what you say because what you say is what you wish. Learn to control your mouth.
And another thing is that you must observe what people say especially behind your back, when you know what people say you, you will know whom to trust and whom to discard from your inner circle. It is highly important to know who your dealing and one of the ways to know people is by what they say. When Jesus came intothe coasts of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, saying, Whom do men say that I the Son of man am?(Matthew 16:13). Even Jesus way interested in knowing what people were saying. He saith unto them, But whom say ye that I am?.(Matthew 16:13). You need to be aware of what people are saying especially people who are close to you
Sharpen your eyes physically and Spiritually and see everything for what it is, learn to observe and make sure you study everyone close to you