When you hate instructions you will automatically hate your leaders and no longer have fear for anyone because there’ll no longer be anyone who can hold you accountable.
Before I go any further, let me explain that there are two types of fear. One is bad fear that is born from fright and this fear must be kept far from your heart and mind. While the other is good and essential for anyone who is or wants to be wise and this fear is known as reverential fear. Reverential fear is born out of respect(reverence) you have for that particular individual and the authority the person has over your life. The only person who automatically is allocated this fear is God and He has the highest authority over your life but others you have the choice to select to a certain extent to allow them to have authority over your life. Meaning these people have the power to make you do things you may not want to do as long as it is within the principles of God.
These individuals are your parents, teachers, mentor and pastor(s) and you must give them the fear and respect they deserve by the virtue of their position. If you want to be stranded stop listening to everyone including God. If no human being can advice you then you don’t fear anyone and no one can help you.
The fool hath said in his heart, There is no God.Corrupt are they, and have done abominable iniquity: there is none that doeth good.( Psalms 53:1)
If you live a life that doesn’t have boundaries, compassion for your neighbour or consideration of consequences then just know you are a fool because you have said in your heart that there’s no God hence none can punish you or hold you accountable. This isn’t the reason why atheists are the most heartless and inconsiderate people on the earth because as long as they do what think is right in their hearts they will never have any remorse for their actions. This makes them the most hard headed and stubborn people on the face of the earth. And he spake a parable unto them to this end, that men ought always to pray, and not to faint; Saying, There was in a city a judge, which feared not God, neither regarded man: And there was a widow in that city; and she came unto him, saying, Avenge me of mine adversary. And he would not for a while: but afterward he said within himself, Though I fear not God, nor regard man; Yet because this widow troubleth me, I will avenge her, lest by her continual coming she weary me. ( Luk 18:1-5).
Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honour thy father and mother; (which is the first commandment with promise;)( Ephessians 6:1-2)
Listen, obey your leaders and fear them because if don’t fear them it’s the same as you not fearing God since he gave them to you. And I will give you pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with knowledge and understanding.( Jeremiah 3:15).